With vacations and a more laid-back mindset the norm for many families during the summer months, it is easy to neglect health routines that are upheld during the school year… including maintaining exercise, diet, or even taking remedies.
Of course, both parents and children need vacation time to unwind and relax in a less structured (and arguably more creative way) than they are able to do at school. The long summer break offers an ideal opportunity for all of these essential activities!
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However, many parents of children with concentration and behavioral problems such as ADD/ADHD, ODD, anxiety, Autism and Asperger's Syndrome report that vacations can be stressful for children as well as parents. When they are over, children often take weeks to settle back into the routine of school.
Many times vacations seem to “undo” all the progress achieved during the school term. And then there is the issue of medication - should it be continued or should children give their systems a 'break' from medication during the summer?
Because consistency in any holistic health plan is so important for supporting health, continuing regular dosage of natural remedies should be a part of any vacation preparation.
While no two children (or families) are exactly alike, here is some advice that I have given my own clients over the years to help them to decide what is best for their ADD/ADHD children during the summer break. This advice is often just as useful and applicable for parents of children with other learning, behavioral or emotional problems, as well.
- Don’t let go of the established routines and rituals.
- Don’t let diet go out of the window.
- Don’t overdo TV and computer games.
- Do spend quality time with your child.
- Do continue with their health supplements, herbal and homeopathic remedies.
- Do encourage reading and fun-filled, yet educational activities!
1. Don’t let go of the established routines and rituals.
For most children, vacation is a time when they can be free from the boring routine of the school term. No more fixed bed times, bath times and meal times. No more rules and no more homework - just loads of fun! While this is okay for most children, those with concentration and behavioral problems need routine and structure in order to provide a safe and predictable framework within which they can operate.
Depending on the age of the child, try to maintain the usual bedtimes, bath times, mealtimes and even the same rituals (e.g. bedtime stories) as much as possible. Remember that these were probably difficult to establish in the first place and will be even more difficult to re-establish once you have let them slip. ADD/ADHD children do not cope well without structure - even if they fight about it! Without being completely inflexible, try to keep things as steady as possible. When you do have to break with routine, explain this clearly in advance to your child, including the reasons for the change - as well as the fact that things will return to normal the next day.
2. Don’t let diet go out of the window.
As far as is possible, try to continue the good eating habits you have established during the term. Vacation time often brings with it loads of candy, many junk food meals and TV dinners. While a break from 'healthy food' now and then is not the end of the world, remember that many ADD/ADHD children are especially sensitive to food additives and a high fat, high sugar diet. They usually do best on regular 'steady energy' or low GI meals.
Too much junk food during vacation often leads to an over-stimulated system, which could take weeks to settle down. Hyperactivity, 'bad' behavior, impulsiveness, aggression, mood swings as well as allergies are often the result. While it may be difficult to put your foot down, remember who is in charge here! Your children are in no position to decide for themselves when it comes to junk food and it is important for parents to maintain the balance and provide tasty, healthy alternatives (as well as set a good example!). Keep mealtimes and snacks regular, nutritious and fun!
3. Don’t overdo TV and computer games.
I often say that TV and computer games have taken over the role of the family and the extended family in today's society. Instead of playing with a cousin or taking a walk with Grandma while Mom is preparing dinner, many children sit in front of the TV for companionship and recreation. Parents who have to juggle home and work often turn a blind eye to the number of hours their children spend watching TV or sitting in front of a computer - especially while they are on vacation!
While we all know that moderation is best, it is very tempting to 'let sleeping dogs lie' - especially when it means that kids stay out of mischief and a little welcome peace and quiet reigns for a change! Children who tend to have a short attention span or who cannot sit still are often surprisingly passive in front of a screen, which seems to soothe and calm them. However, remember that there comes a time when all that pent up energy has to come out! Usually when it does, it is accompanied by uncontrolled, difficult and overactive behavior.
Too much time in front of a static screen can also affect hand-eye coordination and weaken the muscles of the eyes, as well as their ability to track moving objects and follow the lines of printed text in books. Weakened muscles in the upper torso will make it difficult for children to sit in their desks and write comfortably once they return to school. Hours of inactivity will reduce the amount of oxygen to the brain and therefore further affect cognitive activities like concentration and memory. Wise parents will provide a variety of active outdoor play, different non-TV indoor activities and reading - and allow their children to watch only a few selected programs on TV. While this applies to all children, it is particularly important for children with concentration and learning difficulties!
4. Do spend quality time with your child.
Children need quality time with their parents and now is the perfect opportunity! The more they are able to bond with you and with the family, the less vulnerable they will be to peer pressure as they grow up. Spending time with your children gives you the opportunity to show them you love them, to teach them the values and beliefs that are important to you - and to have fun with them! Before you know it, they will be all grown up and you will be able to look back with fondness at the good times that you had together!
5. Do continue with their health supplements, herbal and homeopathic remedies.
Parents are often advised to give their children a break from prescription drugs for ADD/ADHD. There is a very good reason for this, as these stimulant drugs are in fact harmful to the child's system (which is why they have such a high schedule rating). It therefore makes sense that they should be reserved only for times when they are really necessary - during the term time when children need to be able to focus on their school work.
Doctors recommend that weekends and vacations remain drug-free to minimize the negative effects of prescription stimulant drug use. Luckily this is not the case with herbal and homeopathic remedies. Taking a "break" in dosage is not recommended and not advised for herbal and homeopathic remedies.
Unfortunately, many prescription drugs are also addictive and many children spend the first few weeks of their vacation suffering withdrawal symptoms - mood swings, tearfulness, erratic behavior - even headaches and insomnia. Many parents interpret this as a sign that their children 'need' the drugs, not realizing that they are actually witnessing a drug withdrawal process!
If your child takes prescription ADD/ADHD drugs and becomes moody or difficult when they are stopped, reduce the dosage slowly to minimize the withdrawal symptoms. Better yet, use the vacation to try out natural alternatives! While you may not be able to see the results as easily as you would in a structured classroom environment, you would certainly have the opportunity to have a good trial of the natural remedies, and by the time school starts, they would have had time to reach therapeutic effectiveness.
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Parents who have already chosen the natural route for their children often ask whether they should also stop the herbal and homeopathic remedies during the summer - to give their kids a 'break'. Because these remedies (including our Focus and BrightSpark) are especially formulated to improve health in a number of areas (including brain functioning and mood), the answer is clearly 'NO'! Unlike the pharmaceutical drugs, the natural ingredients in the remedies are there to support health and functioning (rather than artificially suppress symptoms) and we recommend that they are continued throughout the year.
Furthermore, some children take longer to respond to natural medicines than others. This means that taking a 'break' may leave your child at a disadvantage when school begins again, with the first few weeks spent trying to get back the full therapeutic effect.
Similarly, health supplements like vitamins and minerals should also be continued during the summer to make sure your kids start off the new academic year on their best foot!
6. Do encourage reading and fun-filled, yet educational activities!
Children with ADD/ADHD and learning problems need more practice than their classmates. Although they may be just as (or even more!) intelligent as their peers, concentration, perception, listening abilities and reading skills do not always come easily to them. Taking a long break from the activities of the classroom may cause children with ADD/ADHD to lose ground and their hard-won classroom skills may become rusty.
While it may be unfair to subject your children to schoolwork during their summer break, try to be creative! Use your imagination to provide different fun-filled activities which use the same skills needed for classroom work. Jigsaw puzzles, memory games and even card games all require concentration, focus and calculation. Take your kids to the shop and let them help you to add up the cost of the purchase - and then allow them to pay the cashier themselves. Bake cakes with them, getting them to measure out the ingredients. Get them involved in interesting art and craft work that needs hand-eye coordination. Provide exciting books to read as a special treat! There are many ways to keep kids busy with activities that are 'good' for them and which will help them to retain the skills necessary to succeed in the classroom!
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Finally, remember that parents need a break, too - particularly parents with children who have special needs! During the school year, things can become hectic, and parents are often stressed by multiple demands and by trying to keep up with children who may try them to their limit!
As your child's primary caregivers, you play a major role in the management of ADD/ADHD. Taking care of yourself will also help your child. Being the parent of a child with ADD/ADHD can be tiring and trying. This can test the limits of even the best parents! Take time out for yourself to recharge your batteries. Learn stress-management techniques to help you respond calmly to your child. Try and maintain healthy eating and sleeping patterns. Begin a hobby or even a yoga class. All your efforts will be rewarded by more patience, better energy reserves and superior coping skills - which will benefit both you and your children!
And lastly - remember that you are not alone! As always, Herbal Remedies is here to help with advice, support and the best natural remedies for you and your family!
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